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Clean and Sober


Funny how life gets so busy that we forget the little things. Recently I had an anniversary that I totally forgot. This is not the usual anniversary where I need to apologize to a woman or look for a new one. Drinking for me is an issue. I cannot take just one drink and I have no control for like most things, I only know two speeds: WFO (wide freaking open) or OFF. For years I drank and did things that were to some bad. That life style came to an abrupt halt and I was forced to make a simple choice. I had no question and made it completely. Now my friends have a driver and I am in a better place. For my anniversary, congratulations on a life choice that is better for you!

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